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Still, the main reason I don't accept the theory that men biologically pursue sex while women biologically play hard-to-get has to do with how much sex my lesbian friends have. +Men have less shame about talking about the sex they are having, because of socialization from an early age. +Gay men have a harder time forming long-term relationships (due to internalized issues and lack of the institutions that support long-term relationships for straight people) so continue hooking up longer.
Mens' visuality also explains infatuation with young guys straight men also go for younger women. So they put sex out there in their entertainment and media so it seems they seem to be having more sex than straight men. +Men are more visual and so gay men often work out, and in turn like to put their good-looking bodies out there and see other good-looking bodies, which has ripple effects even on those who don't work out. +Gay men leave their religious institutions and develop a sexual ethic that is based on whether or not you are causing harm, not tradition or purity. I think that also explains why some are infatuated with young guys. +Gay men "start late" and often don't start having sex till their early 20s or later, so want to make up for it in late 20s, 30s, 40s etc. At least not in light of the women I know! Also, lesbians have lots and lots of sex too. I don't see sexualization of the gay scene as resulting from the "women put the breaks on sex" idea.